Four priorities
Voluntary choice: Any plan should be based on clear, willing participation.
Communication: Preferences, discomfort, limits, and requests to pause can be said directly.
Respect: Personal space, privacy, and boundaries must be respected.
Pause anytime: You never need to push yourself in order to please anyone or complete an arrangement.
If something feels uncomfortable, rushed, ignored, or unclear, prioritize leaving, pausing, and seeking appropriate support.